Rate yourself in your relationship.

Without asking others, rate yourself.
Select the number that best describes you and your relationship.
1: rarely, 2: sometimes, 3: often, 4: most of the time, 5: always.

1. We figure out and solve our problems together, and we respect each other's ability to solve problems.
1 2 3 4 5

2. We work together, and we see ourselves as a team. We don't compete or put each other down.
1 2 3 4 5

3. We decide things together and make the most of  each others perspective.
1 2 3 4 5

4. We accept and work through differences and find a good way to handle social activity.
1 2 3 4 5

5. We decide together how to handle our finances.
1 2 3 4 5

6. We work together to handle our religion, politics, and rules to live by.
1 2 3 4 5

7. We work together to solve problems about our social life and friends.
1 2 3 4 5

8. We have worked out and accept our roles and our relationship about family life and parenting.
1 2 3 4 5

9. We do things together and have fun together.
1 2 3 4 5

10. We share our feeling with each other freely. We tell each other if we are feeling  worried, sad, or happy.
1 2 3 4 5

11. We tell each other what we like and dislike. We know each other's expectations.
1 2 3 4 5

12. We have a good sex life which is fun and without pressure.
1 2 3 4 5

13. We listen to one another's problems with empathy.
1 2 3 4 5

14. We support each others goals and life changes.
1 2 3 4 5

15. We take care of one another when we are sick or hurt.
1 2 3 4 5

16. We turn to one another when we need support.
1 2 3 4 5

17. We perceive that the other partner likes us more than we like ourselves.
1 2 3 4 5

18. We give one another the benefit of the doubt.
1 2 3 4 5

19. We find the good in one another.
1 2 3 4 5

20. Overall I am satisfied with our relationship.
1 2 3 4 5